I agree with wisfritz4.
You are consulting the wrong source for the kind of problems that you are having.
If you share an account with someone,
make sure you have statements to verify funds that are in the account.
If you make purchases from the account,
keep all receipts.
Don`t make frivolous purchases from the account because this will give you less ground to stand on when it comes to court.
See a lawyer immediately.
Don`t attempt to withdraw funds or to remove your spouses name from the account.
You will then have deprived him access to an asset that is still legally partially his as well as yours.
go see a lawyer with your documentation ASAP!